Choking during sex may be something of an unknown to you, something that can even be a little bit daunting just at the thought. I've written about sexual dominance before , so if you don't have the basics down yet, that's a good place to start. But today I want to get a little more specific — I want to write about sexual choking. To start off, choking during sex is not for everybody. On the flipside, 32 percent have tried it and a majority were fans. It was also revealed that 65 percent of women enjoy being dominated sexually and that having a sexual kink is actually pretty common.
The problem is, not a lot of people know that their partner may be into it, and they may not know how to properly implement it during sex. Interested in giving a woman a super-intense orgasm without choking her? Check this out. Sex therapist, Christine Milrod Ph. But this kind of sensation is so much different that indulging in your favorite dessert or even rocking, regular sex.
But compare that to a slap on the butt or pulling her hair. It would be almost impossible for her to focus on anything else than that immediate sensation she just experienced at your hand. Pulling hair or giving a light slap are great assets to use during sex, but both are quick sensations that come to an end relatively quickly.
Check this out to see the 3 types of powerful orgasms that will drive her crazy in bed…. You heighten her senses to sex by putting her in a honed sense of focus to all other things that are happening to her. This, of course, is just a level of roleplay that her brain may travel to. It can be fun for her to think of herself at your mercy while also understanding that you're in a safe space.
For many, laying their cards out on the table before actually engaging in sex is unheard of, which is fair. Seems silly, right? Some girls grab the back of their hair or neck. You could have been sitting for five hours or five minutes. Until you thought about the fact that your butt is making contact with something else, you didn't acknowledge that simple fact. Another good example is the ringing sound that you can tone out until you begin to think about it. That sexual presence allows for both people to feel more and to achieve more. The cluster of muscles in the back of the neck is one of the strongest groupings of muscles in the body.
You could grab the back of her neck and squeeze while also putting your other hand around her throat. You can watch me demonstrate this technique with my lovely friend Julia in the video above….
One of the ways that you can fully understand limits and push her to an enjoyable level is pretty simple:. The most blatant way to make sure that things are going well is to make sure that fullness in her face that we talked about earlier is at a healthy level. I was doing right by playing it safe, always wanting to aim for less than more. Learn from my experience. Open up this line of communication and find out how much pressure she wants on her neck. You have no idea what her levels of pain are and you may not have an idea of her levels of comfort.
Another thing to note is that the act of choking during sex is but a small piece of a larger puzzle. I know it's a lot, but I also know you'll do great if you keep everything I've covered in mind. Which is why, if you want to take it even further… and give her the kinds of powerful, earth-shattering orgasms that she'll beg you for more of…. You can use these moves at any time, with just about any woman, and in any situation….
Ruwan Meepagala empowers people by getting them in touch with their instincts. He coaches and teaches classes on sexuality, creativity, and archetypal expression. He was a libido counselor on the Psychology Today directory in New York where he helped individuals and couples overcome intimacy issues. He was also an instructor and media spokesperson for an organization that taught female sexuality.
Now he teaches and speaks all over the world. He graduated magna cum laude from the University at Buffalo and holds multiple certifications in coaching, mindfulness, and tantra. Books: The 7 Steps for Transmuting Desire Into Power: An ancient procedure to unleash your animal magnetism, your creative genius, and attract everything you desire.